Toddler in the House

To be honest, the word "toddler" didn't across my mind whenever i was thinking about raising a child. The most phrases i had heard before was (baby, kid, teenager)!
living with a 2 years boy  is something so new and challenging for me. I was aiming to be the PERFECT MOMMY  with the perfect attitude as what had been shown to us from media channels in the past years. 

No, I don't have to and YOU don't have to

make your new goal to be perfect in your own way 
with your own vision

Raise your child not as a mission you have to complete but as a way to enjoy your life

there will be times when they will

throw food in air
throw water on ground
eat play-dough with a big smile
scream & shout


Its there only life and they are new to it.. they have the right to enjoy it, discover it and live it the way they love to.

what you have to do then?

try to be calm and think wisely
watch out you voice tone
choose your word 
avoid "NO" and replace it 
shift his energy 

Listen with a third ear and see with a third eye. (maybe his attitude was reflection for something wrong is happening in his life).

and just ENJOY it! ;)